i really love this girl, who i was living in with for 3 months, then i came back to my country,,and even though i was very iffy about having a long distance, she wanted to, now after 1 month, well i every other day feel like breaking up,,cuz i believe this is not my thing,,i really like this girl though, but i feel i am just not strong enough, she says she believes it will work out,,its only 2-3 more months,, but then during the first month itself she invited her ex over just as friends, who instead wanted to use her just again. so they were talking about me and finally he asked her if she thinks i love her , is she sure,? but she couldnt answer,and then he said he loved her,and she fell for it,,they ended up having an oral encounter, and she called me up and said(crying) "i dont know why i did it" "i knew it was wrong and i did it, i dont know why", now she is a depression patient so i didnt want to make haste and take a decision, which still haunts me every night. so i am really unable to decide, what should i do? i really like this girl, and we have a great time together, but i also believe we have cultural diffrences, she being american and myself being indian. i am a really sensitive guy, and she is very practical, im more matured than she is, so she doesnt understand what i try to convey to her as much(i feel like im her dad).and now to make things up for me cuz of that accident, she's working as much as possible along collg and working out, cuz she is really a bit on the fatter side, just so she can impress my family,,and get a lawyer to help us out with all immigration stuff, but i dont know what to do,, any help would be appreciated, and if anything else someone wants to question i can answer. much thanks!
