yea i was thinking about it, but the thing is his parents know a/b me and how we meet, and they are ok with that, but hes mother will not let him come and see me unless my dad knows. so there is no way i can tell them i met him trough a friend u know. so idk im gonna tell them and if they accept it and give it a change i hope they accept it so we will see. cuz i know i can not live another yr like that u know so...