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What can you do to get your boyfriend of 2 years to want you again like when you were first dating?


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Live simply, love generously and  care deeply.

 

You need to be interesting mentally, intellectually and learn more about other things in life, about what is going on in the world, not just all about sex.  Sex gets tiring eventually.  Some men get challenged when you know the current events and can discuss anything that he's interested in like sports, his job, etc.  He knows your sexual capability already.  Show him that you are also an intelligent and smart woman.


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   " I have my Freedom , but I don't have much time " Wild Horses . The Stones                                                  Protect The Mustang .

                                       

                                                  

                                                              



 
                                                                                                             

Hi ,  dogbreeder gave you some good advice gave her 2 thumbs up .  I have a couple questions for you .  Has your BF expressed to you that he no longer feels the same love for you that he use to .   Or is this something that you sense coming from him .  Are you growing and want more from the relationship than he is willing to give ?  Have you talked to him about any of this .  May I ask how old you two are and are you living together . 


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Honestly, you can't, the excitement of the beginning of a relationship is something very different then what the two of you have now. However, you can better your relationship and sexual life in other ways, the first is to understand that the first stage of excitement is gone and that love and strong connection and solid commitment replaced mystery and excitement and the big unknown.

 

Do you feel the same level of excitement toward your boyfriend? probably not. Why not talk to him about it, the best way to feel close and intimate is to openly talk to one another.


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Thanks for your reply. To answer your questions: I've been sensing from my boyfriend that he is no longer as interested in me anymore. But every time I confront him he always says that his love and feelings hasn't changed for me and that he still as interested as before. The thing is, he never shows that he is just as interested like he used to, so that makes me question if he still is. I feel like I'm needing more from the relationship than he is either ready to give or can give at all. I have talked to him multiple times about how I feel, but he just says he'll try harder to show me he still cares about me as much, but it seems like he always forgets or something and I don't really know what to do anymore.

I am 21, he is also 21, and we are not living together and have never lived together.


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Hi ,  Relationship grow and change , and after 2 years it is not going to be the same as it was in the beginning , and that does not mean that your BF no longer loves you as he once did .   Don't  " confront " him , talk to him , communication is a strong bond that builds a relationship , is he someone that you may want to spend the rest of your life with .  Tell him you do not feel loved by him like you once did and you need more from him .  If he is unwilling to give you more then you have a hard decision to make do you go or do you stay .  That is a decision that only you can make .  You are young and if he's not willing to give you what you need to be happy then you need to seek someone who does make you happy .   Sometimes the grass looks greener on the other side of the fence , so just make sure if you do decide to go , that you tried everything to make this work , so you have no regrets and will never look back , with a should of , could of ....... 


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