the man i'm livjing with for two year is 39 yrs old. he just got my space for two months. at first he he used to show me his page.but then he stopped.so i created a page myself and we're suppose to have a date . he doesn't know it's me. but he offer someone he doesn't know anything she wants.i don't even have a picture on my page.i know what i should do is kick him to the curb. but i love him. now there's no trust. please help me i need someones help i'm drowning in tears
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I think you love the man you THOUGHT he was. THIS man is not worth your love.
Of course, you realize that the trust disappeared a long time ago. If it hadn't, then you would never have done what you did.
You suspected he was not worthy of your love or your trust, and you caught him betraying both. (Be careful what you ask for, you just might get it.)
Now you have a decision to make. Do you still truly believe you "love" this man? If so, then you really need to figure out why.
Why would you "love" someone who treats you this way? Do you love him more than you love yourself? Don't you think you deserve to be loved and respected? Don't you respect yourself?
If so, then the ONLY answer to your problem is to do as Lido advised.
Kick this man to the curb and move on.
Kick him to the curb. Apparently he doesn't love you enough to be faithful.
Get rid of him now. Staying longer will only make it worse in the long run. No relationship can survive without trust.
Good luck.
Be Blessed.
Though I speak with the tongues of men and of angels, and have not charity (Love), I am become as a sounding brass, or a tinkling cymbal.
Charity suffereth long, and is kind; charity envieth not; charity vauneth not itself, is not puffed up, Doth not behave itself unseemly, seekth not her own, is not easily provoked, thinketh no evil; Rejoiceth not in iniquity, but rejoiceth in truth; Beareth all things, believeth all things, hopeth all things, endureth all things. Charity never faileth.
And now abideth faith, hope, charity, these three; but the greatest of these is (Love) charity.
I would kick him to the curb but first I would have a little fun. I would keep the date. I bet he will have the shock of his life. I would either meet him at a restaurant, or have him pick me up from a friend's house that he doesn't know, and I would answer the door.
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Round of thumbs for Lido , Jk and Tippy .
Trust , respect , fidelity and communication is the foundation a solid relationship is built on , you lack all of these with this man . Apparently you sensed this , since you set him up on My Space . And he did exactly what you thought he would . Do not spend the rest of your life looking over his shoulder for other women, wondering where he is everytime he is out of your sight . This man does not love ,respect or value you ,if he did he wouldn't be making the willful decision to be unfaithful to you The Ultimate Betrayal . Actions speak louder than words . How do you know there have not been other women in the past , you don't . He is putting your mental and physical health at risk , you are not safe in his arms , have you thought about STD , perhaps one that could kill you . Your partner should never be your source of pain , sorrow , hurt or anguish . He's made the willful decision to hurt and disrespect you . He isn't happy , he does not love you and has choosen infidelity, instead of being a man ,telling you the truth , he lacks character . For every decision we make in life there are consequences . There are alot of good , honest , loyal , faithful men who will be more than willing to fill this man's shoes . Allow your self respect to kick in and kick his dishonest , unworthy butt to the curb , but first keep the date . It is Independence Day for you , Judgement Day for him .
Love is the battery of life....
Hi,All 4 answers advised you to dump him...... that's exactly what you should do. Read carefully Equus's answer, and apply what she wrote (very smart, thumb up). I wouldn't suggest that you keep the date: It's clear that you still love him and it will sure be very painful...... Why suffer ? - He is not worth your tears and heart pains..... leave him without saying a word. He is not worth one word !. Best regards,
i met him he was shock because he would never think i was capable. but i told him it's over. we're r finished. there is no way he could have talk his way out of this one.now he can b all the player he wants to b. i want to thank u all for ur response even though i knew what i had to do i just needed that little push thank you very much you guys were very helpful
Wonderful, elaine! Thanks for letting us know what happened.
Best wishes.
Elaine , I am sorry HE choose to put you through this . Remember it was his doings not yours . You will find a good man , they are out there . I wish you Peace , Happiness and the love of a good man .
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