How often should you expect a man to call or see ...

hmm.  if he says you're his girlfriend...  i say at least once a day even if it's just to say, "hi, i'm really busy at work, but just wanted to tell you i'm thinking of you."  however, men are stupid, and sometimes it doesn't occur to them to call.  so don't be too disappointed if he doesn't.  :0)

I agree with gezebel that it should be at a minimum of once a day if you are exclusively dating someone.  He should want to say hi to you at least once a day just like I am sure you think about him every morning when you wake up. Don’t start to feel like you have done something wrong because gezebel is also right when she says that men can be absent minded.  If you have been dating for a few months it is definitely time to have some consistency and growing in your relationship.  My suggestion to you is to not contact him. See how long it takes him to call you.  When he does call his first words will be inquiring on why you haven’t contacted.  That will open up the door for communication on this subject.  Don’t be afraid to ask him why he doesn’t call on a regular basis.  He might just be one of those people that doesn’t really like talking on the phone.