How can i get my husband to want more sex

This is a loaded question and I can only imagine the crazy answers you are going to get.  My advice is three-fold.  Men are naturally designed to want sex.  There could be several reasons why they pull away from it.  It could be physical, mental, or emotional.  If your husband is depressed or taking certain medications his libido could be physically altered and he may want to see a physician and discuss it. Your husband could also be getting mental signals from you that sex isn’t in the cards.  You might try doing things to let him know that you are interested.  It doesn’t have to be extreme sexual advances; it can be as simple as a back massage or as elaborate as a sexy role playing outfit.  It is also possible that your husband feels unattractive as of late in a sexual way and that is affecting him emotionally. Just like when women age, men can develop complexes about their aging appearance. You may again want to try showing him that you are attracted to him and want him by making subtle and some maybe not so subtle advances.  I don’t know you or your husband so none of these may apply to you.  I do have one more trick up my sleeve that has a more scientific approach.  When a women climaxes, she releases pheromones; the same hormone released by an animal in heat that attracts the male counterpart. Some doctors and women believe that if you “self-pleasure” before you meet with a prospective partner it will increase the chemical attraction.  Basically in layman terms, if you masturbate before your husband comes home in the evening, he will be more likely to want to have sex with you that night.  Some men even swear that they can smell the scent of women who is sexually driven.  

eesh.  tough question.  men are very visual creatures.  sometimes even a brush against you in the hallway can get him off.  has he always been like this or all of a sudden?  i agree with the above answer that he might be feeling unattractive; however, it's been my experience (as a single girl dating) that when a man no longer cares to have sex with me it's because he's getting it somewhere else. 

I have the same problem with my husband, and it drives me crazy because I want sex all the time.  This is partly due to the fact that I do not get it enough, but I have tried everything!  I even sale Romance Enhancement products which typically turns any man on just thinking of a woman selling those kind of products!  I do understand what everyone has said, but I still am in the same boat not knowing what to do.

First of all, you have to rule out physical problems like impotence.  Next you have to look at his life/career.  Many men work horribly long hours, and are just too pooped to pop at the end of the day.  The look for signs of depression, or anger issues.  If you have none of these problems, then either he has a very low sex drive, he is cheating on you, or something in your relationship is turning him off.  Do you fight?  Has he expressed any anger over bills, household matters or issues with the kids? Have you told him how much you want him?  Some women wait for the men in their lives to make the first move ~ to initiate sex, but most men would love to have their women seduce them.  If he feels he is doing all the work, it can become almost another job for him.  You need to talk to him.  You need to tell him in very plain language what you need.  Don't hint.  Don't insinuate.  Men can be quite obtuse sometimes, so don't mince words.