Hi allannli i m akshra. i m very upset bcoz i took ...

Unfortunately, I don't think there's much you can do. If he is not taking your calls, you might try writing him a letter and mailing it to him (or emailing him if you know his current email address). You cannot control anyone but yourself at this point. If he doesn't return your communication, you will have to accept this choice and learn to move on. Good luck.

The above post was good advice that you should take.  He politely told you not to call him, and when you did, got rude with you--which is understandable.  Although you believe he still loves you, if he did, he woudn't be trying to avoid you the way he is.  He doesn't want to be part of your life, so accept this, and move on.  It will be hard for you for a while, but you'll be free to find  someone else who will really make you happy.  Good luck.

Akshra, unfortunately in this world we can love someone with every fiber of our being, and it doesn't mean he will love us back. You need to remember why you got divorced in the first place. There is a reason it did not work. In marriage, you get accustomed to a certain routine. It is hard when you are no longer with that person because you get so used to them. I'm sure it is extremely difficult for you when you think of all the good times and memories you two had together...But you need to remind yourself why you two split. I would highly suggest that you stop contacting him if he has expressed he does not want to speak with you. If you love him, respect his wishes. It will be very difficult Akshra, no one is saying it isn't, but you need to be strong and live to be your own person, learn to live without him. You lived without him before, you can do it again. It all just takes time.

I hate to be blunt but my advice is move on with your life thats why it's called a divorce. Dont go back in time you have been there once so why go back. An Ex is called an Ex for some reason do you want the same thing all over again as if you go back for round #2 it will end up the same again is this what you want??????? As you are his Ex let it stay that way an EX move on lady you made the mistake once don't do it again as it sounds HE WANTS NOTHING MORE TO DO WITH YOU and no i would not contact him it seem's plain and simple to me forget him move on as there are a whole lot of good men in this wourld.

You don't say why you got divorced, it really dosen't matter.  Your marrige is over so let it go and get on with your life.  All of these folks who have responded gave you good advice, take it, you will be happier

 in the long run.

Ken Reed Sr