Love Gone Bad

Hi Susan,
No, I don't think you were "played for a fool" I believe you met the wrong guy, fell in deep love (that blinded you to see the truth), decided too quickly (B4 knowing him well) to move and live together..... things didn't work well and he decided to move on....  the rest only shows you what kind of man he is.....  The best advise I can give you: Forget about that man and those relations, learn the lesson, and be more carefull next time.  Somewhere there, there is a man that is waiting for you, be worth you, and treat you properly (true love and care).
Best regards,

Hi Susan,

    My friend OronD gave you a beautiful and smart advice, I gave him 2 thumbs up.  I would like to add a comment.  I know what happened to you was very painful.  On the other hand,  I think that you should be thankful that this happened before you finally had a commitment to him.  This man does not deserve you.  He does not have the qualities that a good woman needs to marry.  So please try to forget him and look forward to meeting someone nice who will treat you with respect and will be devoted to you.

     You need to be thankful that he showed his real color.  Take care,  I know this is tough for you but all these things happened for a reason.  God has saved you from a bigger disaster and more heartaches.

Hi Susan, you certainly are not a fool. We live and we learn. Life would be pretty boring if we stayed in our comfort zone. Move on and just be grateful that he showed his true colours sooner than later. Now he's "her" nightmare. There are lots of wonderful guys out there. Don't settle for less than what you deserve, which is an honest, caring man who   will adore you!