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What should i do????

ok well i been seeing my boyfriend for 6 months now and we been having sex almost everyday. To me its getting old but he is loving it and doesnt want to stop.. so i want to make him happy but at the same time i want to stop doing it and do something nice for a change. Don't get me wrong he is a GREAT guy he takes me out, and everything.. but i want to tell him some how that we should quit the sex for awhile and do something romantic. you know? But i dont know how to tell him without him getting mad. please help me out... : (

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If he loves you, he will understand. I think you should tell him how you are feeling.


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Honey, Honey, romance is infrequent with males at best, even old men want to do it all the time... find yourself a good friend first, then have sex with him, you won't feel so empty and used...To answer your question, he is going to get mad,so accept that, but can you live WITHOUT telling him? I think not...


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   " I have my Freedom , but I don't have much time " Wild Horses . The Stones                                                  Protect The Mustang .

                                       

                                                  

                                                              



 
                                                                                                             

Gave Sue 2 thumbs up for her good advice .    Think you are feeling a little used and unloved , which he cannot do anything if you do not share these feelings with him .   Tell him you want and need more than the daily roll in the hay from with him .    You want and need ROMANCE , conversation , flirting , holding hands ,   tell him you want and need the whole picture .   When two people love and care deeply about one another Sex should never feel like an obligation , it should be an expression of love .  I realize that Men and Women think differently about this .  Make sure he understands that it is NOT that you do not want him you just want more of him in other areas .  Communication is a very important part of all relationships .  If you cannot talk to this man and share your feelings with him , then it is time to look at the quality of the relationship .  Share these feelings with him  , you may get a pleasant surprise .


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Communication is the key, if you dont tell him how you feel he wont know.

He can only assume you love it and want him to do it more often.

Quitting will be difficult, but doable if he is serious about the relationship.

Instead of going to his house or calling him to come to your place. Suggest other plans or destinations. Make the initiative, not enough women do. You find it works wonders. Avoid the usual sex capades spots, and create new memories elsewhere.

 

Communication, Communication, Communication, Without it you'll get nowhere.

 


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Don't let any grass grow under your feet. Get up and move.

WHY do you two think that you need sex to have a boyfriend/girlfriend? Dating should NOT be an issue of sex but togetherness wholesomely. I don't comprehend why if a man is a perfect gentleman that girls think of him as a sissy/nerd. Doing the righteous thing with your body is not an issue why a person should feel sorry about.


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   " I have my Freedom , but I don't have much time " Wild Horses . The Stones                                                  Protect The Mustang .