Lost trust

From item no. 1 in your message it seems you are broadcasting the wrong message. If you think you can begin a long relationship by hugging and holding hands on the first date you are making a big mistake. The girls who do are the ones who make and break relationships quickly and those are the ones you have been chasing. Remember, if the girl goes along with you in the beginning she will usually break off and go after  someone else.  Begin a relationship slowly so that it will develop into something that will not leave you disappointed and hurt.

i would say it is ok if u hold hands or hug with a person. just to show some respects or greeting,it's still fine. but different story if your girlfriend sees this and by cioncidence she's a girl full of envy, it would be a disaster..as a girl i could feel how she would and it happened once to me. yeah,i felt so angry and mad at him but who knows his culture is to greet people with hugs? we can't change a person to be like we wanted to..

 girls always wanted a wonderful romantic relationship with a guy they love. they just making stuff up so that their love story would be more interesting.

they are not like other girls? i thought there were only guys saying i'm not like other guys???

basically, we can't really predict what girls or guys are in a relationship. some people change when it comes to this matter, and some people need help.i don't think ur the only one who faced this. ur not being played, but ur playing with urself. if u love her, tell her from the bottom of ur heart. dont let her go easily. stand for urself or they will think ur cheap-guy that they could be found anywhere. sorry if this is offensive but seriously, they are not meant for u. go get better ones because they're just some unappreciate people wanting some fun..

good luck