Lost and Confused, what to do?

If he hasnt called you at all that should tell you something. He should have difinitly been contributing to the household expenses. Dont second guess yourself, and dont allow your self to be used. There is always hurt and pain while your going thru a break up, but that to shall pass. Get your self dressed up and visit some friends get out do something.

Hi, the best advice I can give you is not to hold your breathe ,I know you still love him,and all.and theres really no sense to drive your self crazy.There are plenty of men out their that are willing to share your life with.and expensives. you really don't need him.just give your self a chance to meet the right man.and if your former boyfriend should give you a call and tell him that you have moved on with your life,just maybe he will come around and help you.just make sure that he knows that you aren't waiting around for him.that should quake him up.I'm sure he his missing you the same,he is just waiting for you to call him up .and beg him to come back.just be strong and if its meant to be then it will. If not then just move on... men don't like to be alone...specifically in the sex was great.he will definitely come crawling back. just don't sound desperate when you talk to him.   good luck....

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u shouldnt let sum guy take ova ur life like he is the only thing that is important. i went through the same feelins but not the house problems. if he hasnt called hes probally waiting for the rite time. but if he doesnt then hes not worth all the pain n misery n tears. u can do sooo much betta than him. theres all ways sumone betta

Dear Catt..I can only say that actions speak louder than words. Remember this ALL through life. I am very sorry you are experiencing this. I KNOW how it feels first hand. This guy sounds like he is happy to get the boot. You say he hasn't called? I doubt if he is home crying. (Don't mean to make you feel worse, just telling you a real good possibility). These guys are lots of things. First they are immature. You say he didn't contribute? That tells me he doesn't know how to love. When you REALLY love someone, you go out of your way to be helpful.  It might have been confortable for him for the time being. You are NOT going out of your mind. You are experiencing a heart break.  One day you will wonder why, but today it doesn't seem like it. One day you will be very thankful he is gone and weighing you down, financially and emotionally.  You are too strong and positive to let this guy get the best of you! Be good to yourself and decide to move along and DO BETTER.  I wish you well!!