Tell him to practice what he preaches. Why does he think there should be different rules for you and not him? That's a bunch of horse manure. Why would he text you at the wee hours of the morning except to see if you are where he thinks you ought to be, in your own bed. He can stay out with his friend at the pub untill the early morning hours but he expects you to follow his rules? Give him a choice, shape up or ship out. You don't need this kind of baggage, you can find someone who will treat you with love and respect. You will find the right guy when the time is right. Good luck,  and a happy life.