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Long distance relationship and overprotective boyfriend

I am in a long distance relationship for over 5 months now and both me and my boyfriend are really overprotective of each other. However, i tend to let him do what he wants but when i want to do what i want, he'll start a bunch of things and we'll end up arguing. He says it's because he's scared of loosing me. I'm afraid of loosing him as well, but i don't tie down his freedom. He rather I spend the day at home than going out with my friends. If i go out with my friends, he'll get extremely upset, but it's okay for him to hang out with his friends at the pub till early morning. When I text him a message, he sometimes never replies but when he text me, he expects a reply, even going as far as to calling me in the early hours of the morning just so i would reply his message. It aggravates me how he expects me to do things when he doesn't do them himself. What should I do? Is he being overprotective or does he really love me? He tells me he loves me everyday but I don't really know. I love him to death though =(


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Hi Idrbaby,  You profile is not available . What are yours and your BF's ages .

Posted 2008-12-27T22:45:44Z
 
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He is being over protective over you because he dosent want to lose u but the way he has been treating u is descrsful and if its making u feel bad inside then u hav to sit him down and discuss how u feel with him and also if that dosnt work then just send another question message through here and ill get back to u as soon as possible xx

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Posted 2008-12-27T23:01:51Z
 
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He's not "overprotective" he is controlling.Do not allow him to control your life.This is not love.It is actually a form of abuse.This guy is very immature and insecure and unless he is willing to change,you should not put up with this from him-or anyone.Trust is the key to any relationship.If he can't trust you it will never work.

Posted 2008-12-28T00:22:24Z
 
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Your direction,not your intention,determines your destination

Tell him to practice what he preaches. Why does he think there should be different rules for you and not him? That's a bunch of horse manure. Why would he text you at the wee hours of the morning except to see if you are where he thinks you ought to be, in your own bed. He can stay out with his friend at the pub untill the early morning hours but he expects you to follow his rules? Give him a choice, shape up or ship out. You don't need this kind of baggage, you can find someone who will treat you with love and respect. You will find the right guy when the time is right. Good luck,  and a happy life.

Posted 2009-08-27T07:01:55Z

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