Can this Long Distance Relationship work??

It sounds like you have a problem. Can you be loyal to him  only seeing him on leave? It is, for him a career move, and totally respectable. My wife stood by me when i was in vietnam. I cherished that. It depends on you, probably more than him. You have the questions. Tell him if you will wait for him or not. Listen to him. If he can tell you it is for the both of you and he will come home to you trust that. Hopefully it will be real.

If you love him, stay with him.  Long distance relationships can totally work as long as you are willing to put in the effort.  If he loves you, then he will be up for it as well.  It WILL be a challenge but if you all are going to make it then you must be up for that challenge.  How long have you all been together?  I think as long as you have trust and love within the relationship then you will be fine.

Maegen, Long distance realtionships are very hard to maintain. Both people have to really love each other for this to work. As you are both young you should yhink about keeping a friendship but be willing to explore other realtionships. If you truly love each other it will work out but keep your options open if someone you like asks you put go. Good Luck

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     Ask your boyfriend if you can move closer where he is so you can maintain a relationship with him.  Four years is too long for 2 people in love to be separated.  Hopefully you can find a job in Colorado.

    Or if he does not want you to move there, then probably it's a good idea to break up the relationship and find someone who is close and available.

   Hopefully this will work out OK.

How long have you guys been together? :(  If you feel that this guy is worth the wait - then sure enough, you should stay with him.  You also need a good trust bond. I'm in a long distance relationship, as well. It's been that way for three years.  We phone at least once a day.

 Long distance relationships are harder to deal with, but they always seem to be stronger.  You two will really appreciate the time you two DO get to see each other.  :]

I don't believe in long distance relationships. I've had a few in my past and, regardless of strong feelings, you both eventually drift apart. You'll understand what I am talking about later.