How do I go by the logic and not the irrationality. NO RUDE ANSWERS.?
You see logic tells me that it is my mom's opinion and problem if she does not like something I am wearing and not my opinion or problem. And in addition I always get compliments from strangers, and friends on how I dress.. However, I should also say it doesn't matter if my mom or any one else likes or hates the way I dress it should be how I feel. This is what logic tells me.
But the following are my irrational thoughts:. But then I start to think well I used to shop in department stores and the department stores decide what we should and should not wear. Plus the fact I am a size 4,6,8 in department stores. But in the thrift stores the sizes are so mis-marked that I have actually purchased size 10’s,12’s,14’s and 16’. And maybe the double digit sizes are too big on me, but I know they are not because they are not labeled right. But I only think this way because when my mom and I fight she says “Oh they are big on you”, but she wears her clothes to just fit her - I hate the way she dresses.