I live with my parents. I feel uncomfortable bringing girls home and hate when they ask me lots of questions. How can I get them to respect my privacy?
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Unless you are still in school at the age of 23, then living at home has its drawbacks. It is your parents home and they have the right then to ask questions while you are still living under their roof.
If you want more privacy while living there, then you need to sit down and have a serious discussion with your parents. Tell them why you need more privacy and what you will do to earn their trust to get said privacy.
Your other option is to move out and get your own living quarters.
Good luck and best wishes.
You can get your parents to respect your privacy by asking them for more privacy.
Think of what you would like more privacy towards. Also think of the reasons they might say no and come up with ideas on how you can reduce their fears, or ask them what would make them more comfortable. For instance, is there any questions that they do ask you consistently that makes you feel awkward? Why not ask them that you would feel comfortable giving them an answer if it really becomes an issue for you.
Also, is there anything to do for your parents that shows that you can be given even more trust with your judgement? Why not ask them what you could do to display this excellent judgement of yours.
Be prepared though if you don't like what you hear though. It's their house, you might have to move.
This is a hard one. the interaction between parents and children is always difficult regarding these issues so just know that you're not alone. First of all you can try and talk to your parents about this and just explain that you would prefer they not ask so many questions. You can explain that you feel you need a bit more privacy in your life. If you say this in a nice way I'm sure they'll be able to relate.
Your other options are more obvious such as simply to try and keep your girlfriends away from your parents house and of course you should think about moving out if privacy is a big issue in your life. I know these are obvious solutions but this is a tricky situation that can't be solved that easily.
Good luck.
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Tell them to get a life and give you some space .
It's their house, their rules, if you don't like it get your own place. If you can't get your own place then guess you have to live by their rules and questions.
Unfortunately, as parents, we are always concerned and interested in our children's lives regardless of the age of the child. If you are living in their home, it is natural for them to feel "included" in your life. Your best option is to find a place of your own as soon as possible.
The best solution for you in your situation is to move out. If you cannot afford to move, then meet your friends outside. Respect your parent's wishes.
At 24, you obviously havent learned you can't have your cake and eat it too. It is their house, therefore, their rules. You wanna make the rules, move out, get a life!
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