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Little grandson acting sexual

My grandson is 4 1/2 and when we are alone and watching tv, etc. he suddenly pulls up my blouse and kisses my breasts. Last nite he put his hands under my shorts and was feeling my butt.  I was so shocked but didn't want to overact in front of him. He is the cutest, loving little boy not an ounce of bad in him.  Happy all the time and comes from loving parents.  How do I handle this? 


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Tell him, that's not nice. He's old enough to understand that. My concern is that he is seeing this somewhere or someone is being inapropriate with him or around him.

Posted 2009-08-28T03:44:33Z
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Maur57,  I am willing to bet that your grandson saw his daddy doing this to his mommy, and now thinks that is a way to show love.  He is now showing his love for you.  Ask him where he learned how to do that.  I think it is harmless, but I would tell him those actions are only for a married mommy and daddy to do.

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Wow!  That is really scary.  Loving parents aside, something is not right in their home!!  Either he is being allowed to see things he shouldn't or is being asked to do things he shouldn't.  Tell him that he should not be touching you that way, and have a real conversation with him.  Don't get all upset, but ask him where he learned to do those things.  If he thinks you are upset or angry with him, he may not tell you.  You need to think like a stranger right now and not like a relative.  Something is not right in that boy's life.  You need to help him tell you about it.

Posted 2009-08-31T14:21:53Z
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As long as it does not go any futher then that I don't see anything wrong with it. I think it is just a way of sharing love, He is curious and wants to do exploring.  If you are comfortable with it let him do the top part and not the bottom.  I'm sure his mother allows him to feed on her breasts and that is normal as long as it stays with the breasts

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Posted 2009-08-31T18:08:50Z
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