What did he mean "against his will"? Do you threaten to shoot him if he doesn't marry you. Sounds to me like he is just satisfied with the way things are now, with no comittment except on his terms. Tell him how you feel about giving up your place to move to his, and anything else that bothers you about this arrangement. If he feels it's such a chore to marry you, then move out and let him enjoy his freedom.You deserve better than this,and showing him you mean what you say, might make him wake up to what he already has, and what the future could be. I wish you luck and happiness because life is too short to be miserable.