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 Especiallyhello out thier, my question is, if u were married 4 2+years, and your wife all of a sudden starts seeing someone on the side and u ask her to stop him from calling her cell phone and he doesn't what should i do? Especially when u have been faithful.


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Love is the battery of life....

Hi,


It's hard to believe.... 42 years of faithfull marriage and all of a sudden....  I would recommend that you have a serious discussion with her.  Prepare the setting, prepare what and how you are going to say, and tell her that you love her, was 100% faithfull to her all those 42+ years, that faith is of utmost importance 2U, that this relation "kills" you, and you require her to stop it at once.  I would even add that if she won't do it she put in risk your realtions.  Make it clear that you don't want your relations to break (on the contrary !) but she leads you to a dead end alley..... and actually force you to act against your will.  I believe that will solve it. 
Best regards,
 

You must have misread the question, it has been 2 years of marriage

Posted 2008-02-08T07:15:20Z
 
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Love is the battery of life....

Hi,
Yes, sorry I read it "4 2+ years as 42+ years".....  My appology.   The situation is now even more complicated: After 2+ years it's a bad sign and should be attended intensively.  Surprusingly, but the former answer is still valid / relevant ! (with the required changes). 
Best regards,

 
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First, I would like to ask how old you both are and how long were you dating before this marriage and do you have children?  People tend to cheat when they are unhappy or something is missing in the marriage or maybe just for the excitement.  Speak to her and ask her why she is cheating. Whatever answers she gives you try to work them out.  If your marriage is worth saving hopefully she will come around especially if she still loves you.

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