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Once two people in a realtionship cheat on each other can the relationship be salvaged? Or can it be rekindled?


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It totally depends on how much you hurt each other. I would talk to him and feel him out. If you hurt each other very badly sometimes all thats left is resentment and anger, in that case only time will heal. I have been cheated on and I could never forgive and forget, I just couldn't trust him ever again. On the other hand sometimes it is just physical and can be seen as a mistake. Feel it out and see what is left between you two, if it is meant to be then it will be.


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Once trust is broken you have to work twice as hard than before to regain it.. Its not impossible to have love rekindled but it wont be easy. It depends if the cheater shows true remorse and realy regrets the 'mistake' and if he/she are 100% commited to make the relationship work again.. Remember there would always be that tiny crack in the foundation..because although love is the foundation of any good relationship,trust is the cement that keeps it together..its also important that the innocent person should be willing to forgive the betrayer entirely.. Forgiveness plays a vital part in the game called love..and remember where there is pain there is hurt there is a wound..it wont just heal with a Im Sorry.. Its going to take a lot more than that.. When two people love each other, nothing is impossible and its in our human nature to make mistakes..whether you the betrayed or the betrayer..have faith and look forward.. Good luck


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me personally it can.. you never forget but you forgive. but whom ever cheated has to prove that what they have at home is what they really want. unfortunately the thought will creep in mind becuase thats how the devil works. but always keep in mind that everyday the sun rises, its a new day. its hard but yes a relationship can be saved. it's a mutual agreement you both have to come too about starting fresh and stating over nothing in the past is important now. and if an incident again reoccurs then that's ground for dismissal.because then the trust has really been tarnished. good luck!! becuase it takes time and patience and determination.


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Its never too late to ask.

Why were you ever together in the first place?? What are you hoping to salvage?? If there was something there it has found its way into someone else's drawers. Enough already.


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Live simply, love generously and  care deeply.

 

Yes, it could be salvaged if both decide to be honest with each other, decide to be monogamous and this happens when two people are committed to have a happy life together that is free from dishonesty and deceit.

   


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i always try to help those who need good adviceSmile

i have never been in this situation to tell you but ill try. you both would have to sit down and see what made him or her cheat on each other. i maybe forget but not forgive if it was to get back at each other. then if thats the case its truely not meant to be


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