Is first love alwayz so0o hurtful?? lol

Any love that falls short of our expectations is hurtful.  We can learn and grow form each love we have, it shapes us.  I would hope a first love would be during our young life.  What did you learn, think about that, was it your fault because you choose the wrong person, or your friend wasn't compatible with you.  I would say the reason you got hurt was because it didn't turn out the way you wanted it to.  Remember that if you dump or let go of someone.  They will feel the same way.

I think the first love hurts the must but everyday that past you become a stronger person by starting to get out and do somehting fun  maybe with your best friend because best friends will help you though anything

Yes, first loves hurt the worst. You will never ever forget your first love. I had to let mine go. He told me he loved me but needed to explore with other girls. He did and played around for 3 years, he came back to me, told me he still loved me and never found anyone that he had feelings with like he did with me. Unfortunetely, when he came back, I had found a new love and have been with him for 20 years. My first love was when I was 17, I have never forgotten him and there is part of my heart that will always love him. When I think of him, I still get butterflies in my stomach. But, I love the person I am with so much and could never imagine life without him. So, your first love does hurt but you will never forget him/her.

i agree with sherry your first love will always hurt.. but in the end you'll never for get them and you;ll always have them in your heart even 20 years down the road.