Yes, I think that sometimes you can love someone but you can be unsure whether it is the right thing to act on that love. I think that loving someone is one thing, but you have to know that the person is going to be good for you, and healthy for you in the future. Sometimes love can seem somewhat fake, just because it doesn't seem to make sense. Love is amazing if it is good for you, and if the person helps you to be a better person, and if the person allows you to be yourself, if you compliment each other and are able to support each other's dreams, as opposed to destroy them. Take this into mind... and if you have what you want in your love, don't be afraid to see this as real love.