At this age he may be re-evaluating his life and health and just decided to get off his butt and do something to improve himself.He also may be conscious of his apearance because of the age difference between you two.Are you absolutely sure he and his wife had drawn up papers before you started seeing him?My view on a cheater is:if they'll do it with you,they'll do it to you.That said,if your relationship was legit from the start,and these small changes in his behavior are your only clues,I would say let it go.HOWEVER,if all your instincts are screaming that something is up,it IS.A womans instinct is rarely wrong.
I really hope it works out.Good luck!