After seven years I believe your married by the eyes of the state.

Have you told him another baby after marriage. I wouldn't have had the first until

after marriage anyway. I did live with my now husband of 20 years a year first,

but we were only in high school when I moved in with him ,After a year it was him

who said we need to get married now , we really just put it off until then because

of not being 18yrs old and money . but when I hit 18 we got married. I do have a

friend with 2 very planned kids and a live in boyfriend of at least 10 yrs now, but

he says that he won't ever marry her ,I always tease him and say I know you just

don't want to settle down haha. He has been with her since high school. I don't

know what his real problem is. I think you need to go with your heart if it bothers

you then tell him ,you need to get married to continue and if he says no, then

make up your mind to leave him if he's not willing to say to everyone that your it

legally. Good luck and make it clear how you really feel.