Keeping My Ex as a FWB

You are an ideal girl friend to this "jerk" because you sell yourself so cheaply. Is that really how you want to see yourself?

I anxiously await your response. 

This is a difficult situation. Because he requested the breakup and it was not mutual he does not have the right to ask anything of you. Especially because he cheated on you! If you are looking for good sex, it is easy to find, and not worth giving this jerk what he wants! You deserve better and there are a lot of great guys out there (myself included) that would not cheat on their girlfriends and even worse cheat and then expect anything from them. It's time to move on.  

What are you a whore just becouse he is good in bed what guy would want you if he found out

he's using you babe!Cheated on you and wants to break up with you and you're still going to give him sex?No way,babe!I don't care how good he is in bed,but you are giving him just what he wants!Sex and not having to be in a relationship too!He's a player,and is selfish!Don't sell yourself so cheaply!Find somebody who will love you,honor you and appreciate you!You are worth far more than what he's giving you!

The same thing happened to me. he broke up with me  and cheated me I know he is Jerk, and now he is looking to be with me,

 my weakest part is I can't tell him I can't see him any more, I am so in love with him, but I am hiding from him for the last 6 month. Some time I can't sleep from missing him, I basically feel dead from not being with him, but I refused to see him again. It is really painful but I prefer to be in pain than to be with him again. Try if you can I know it is really difficult I lost 15 pound when he told me he found another women, but I have to stay away from him. God help you.

Get a good vibrator.  I mean a REALLY good vibrator.  And fanatize about him as you use it.  That way, you win, he loses and you have your self-esteem.  That is, unless you WANT to be a whore.

Jeez, people, stop calling her a whore!

This is a sucky situation, but you will not gain his respect and you will end up feeling rotten if you let him have what he wants with nothing in return. If all you really care about is a good lay, then go with it, but be sure you're using him at least as much as he's using you. 

I think you need to move on, he doesn't deserve you.  Personally, I would get into bed with him in order to cut his dick off so he can learn how to treat people he's in a relationship right, without his dick being in the way.