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Iwas friends with a girl who I latter fell in love ...20 years leter want to be friends

Iwas friends with a girl who I latter fell in love with and dated for 2 or 3 years. She and i were close, we worked together and went on vacations together, we were in love. But she did not think that we were meant to be together and we broke up. I admit that I did not do well with the breakup and made about every mistake in the book. We tried to stay friends for a while afterward. Phone calls and sometimes dinner or something, but there was a tension between us that wan't there before. I think we both sill care a little more than we wanted to admit. We drifted apart after a couple of years and I moved farther away.

 

Now we are both married and its 20 years later. I would like to hear from my old friend again and maybe our famlies could be friends. I would love to meet her husband and have her meet my wife. I am not looking to rekinkle an old flame, just a friendship. I loved her once more than anything and still have a lot of great memories of our time together. I found an old address, about ten years old, and sent hera letter, but i haven't gotten a reply. Should I call, or e-mail her or  just let it be?

Do you think we could still be friends? Maybe a letter or two a year and a birthday care or christmas card?

 

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Hi tc,

This is a hard situation. Since you said that you never got a letter back, it could mean that she chose not to make the reconnection. But it could also mean that it wasn't received or she may not be living there anymore. If you have an email address for her, I would give it a try. However if you don't hear back from her, I think you might just have to accept that a reunion may never happen.

Posted 2009-10-31T16:50:25Z
 
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 Be Thankful

 Speak softly

 Let your love shine...

Leave her alone and let it go.  She evidently does not want to rekindle your old friendship and I doubt if your wife wants you to.  Sure, time has gone by, and perhaps you could be friends once more, but the temptations could also be rekindled and because you are each married to others, it's best left in the past.

Posted 2009-11-10T16:24:07Z

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