WOW....this is where the differences between men and women come in. You can't force a guy when it comes to "intimacy" issues. Some guys have a hard time telling the one they love about their innermost feelings because of the fear of being a "puss". Guys are supposed to be tough according to our society, anyway. I think you should give this guy some space. Confide in him, a little at a time and he may begin to trust you enough to confide back in tiny steps. Guys don't even remember some things the way women do, because we see things so diferently in the first place. I have been married 23 years to a terrific guy and he still confides in small steps. Don't push, go slowly and most of all show him your love and acceptance. Love him in every way that is natural toyou and let him learn to trust you as his soulmate.I believe that there is just too much "new psych" stuff floating around that causes people to expect someone to just melt right into them. Relax and Love and confide in him slowly your innermost cares. Do it at the appropriate times. Blessings to you!
