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andy

Internet flirting is that the same as cheating,

Dear, reader

Internet flirting is that same as cheating?--- on my girlfriend. We have been dating for almost seven months now, and getting together every weekend. For the last couple of months we was planing on spending more time together, (((And talked about this the frist couple of months, and plan about this move to her place, and me getting a job there))) so about three or four weeks ago, I ask her if she wanted me to move to her place! so we would be together all the time. she told me "no" --- And I--- starting to think she was getting cold feet on me. I have been off and on ----- On myspace---(for the last five years) and flirting with other women, So about two weeks ago, I sign back on to myspace, and started flirting with other women. I wanted her to see this!--I was flirting with other women--So sent her a envited to her there---So she would get jealous over me-----so it would drive her closer to me. Now --- she thinks I'am cheating on her! and I'am seeking other women for to replaceing her, or potential candidates, and now there is a trust issue! I have never cheated on my girlfriend, or have seeing other women---- or dated any women during our time. I have remove my self from this site, and told her ---I would never do this again to her. I'm very much in love with my girlfriend, and my heart and soul is into our relationship. She is the best thing, That has come along in a long --- long ----time. and want to spend my life with her.

So were do we stand on this? Thank you, for reading this and your commitments will be look at.

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Posted 2009-09-03T10:44:23Z
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gary999

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Open the pod bay doors HAL

Andy, internet flirting is not cheating but it can be a step in that direction. What caught my eye when reading your post is the following comment;

"so about three or four weeks ago, I ask her if she wanted me to move to her place! so we would be together all the time. she told me "no" ---."

If I read correctly, this happened before you began your internet flirting, so I'd siuggest she has a problem but it's not what you think it is, it's merely a convenient excuse. My advice is to discuss this with her in terms of discovering the real reason, which may be that her feelings for you have changed and she no longer wants a commited relationship. One thing for sure, you don't want to live together in a commited relationship if one has doubts, so best wishes to you in resolving this dilema.

Posted 2009-09-03T11:21:57Z

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jkgrandma

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Turn off the television and teach your children how to think.

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*I do not read or write anything in the "Comments" section.*

So let me get this straight.

You and your girlfriend hit a snag in your relationship.

And, instead of discussing it like adults, you thought the best way to handle it was to play head games?

Uh huh.

May I ask why you're surprised your actions caused things to blow up in your face?

If you want a shot at fixing this, I suggest you be honest with your girlfriend about your actions as well as your motivations.

Then, presuming she still has an interest in you, the two of you can start back at Square One and begin to forge a relationship.

But be advised - if she was already having some doubts, she's not going to want to work to improve what you've got any longer. You will have to be completely open and honest with her and trust she is doing the same with you - and even then, you might not know until the roof falls in upon you.

I wish you good luck and have one final piece of advice: Games are for fun - not for relationships.

If it turns out that this relationship is over, please learn from your mistakes.

Posted 2009-09-03T14:57:51Z

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