Insomnia, illness & sexual issues are certainly directly connected to and caused from the stress which will short circuit your whole emotional body. If the emotional body is in dis-ease, then of course your physical will follow. My suggestion is to look into EFT, otherwise known as Emotional Freedom Technique. Google EFT, there's a whole bunch of information and some pretty informative web sites that can offer insight, information and if you need, practitioners that can help you either personally or over the phone. No drugs, no side effects..just learn what to do and you can tend to your own self...easy and permanent results, but you've got to commit to digging your issues out and working on them with this process. As you gain results, you automatically become self-empowered as a result of stripping away negative feelings and emotions and in turn your body responds with more vibrant and health. What do you have to lose, but the crap you don't want any more?