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I'm an older man who is looking to spice up my love life with my wife of almost 40 years. We are pretty intimate already, but I want to surprise her with something new. Any suggestions?
I don't think you should try to be overly aggressive rather use the soft touch that women love. You should precede your lovemaking with a few things to make your wife more responsive such as taking on some of her chores, giving her more attention such as an occasional hug and kiss. Don't forget a special unexpected gift and cap it all off with dinner at a nice restaurant before going home.
How about some fun sex toys ? Nothing provocative or extreme just fun. It will add lots of spice to your sex life and from there straight to your relationship.
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