Infidelity

Christa,

I am a licensed Private Investigator. I have attached a link to our website which will give you the Signs of Infidelity. http://www.Catching-Cheaters.com

Ultimately, if you don't want to pay someone like myself for evidence, which is not circumstantial then you will have to have Faith and set boundaries in your marriage. Your husband should respect your feelings, especially if he made a mistake in the past. His email, phone and entire life should be an open book to you and vice versa.

Nonetheless, if your husband refuses to be an open book, then you can contact a PI, who can monitor his activity via GPS, find out what numbers are calling the house, do surveillance and get video of his activity and or get text messages from accounts and or cell phones. We can also monitor computer/internet/email activity remotely.

Hope that helps. God Bless and good luck.

Best regards,

Douglas Jarmons-(Investigator 4 LOVE)

Corinthian Group:Private investigations & Personal Protection

(877) 687-3939/OUR-EYEZ

http://www.Corinthian-Group.com

You can tell if he is still cheating by his actions. After 24 years with him, you know what is normal for him and what is out of the ordinary. Any change from his usual routine is a good sign that something is going on. Also, men hate confrontation,fights, arguements, etc. and hate to hear us women bitch & yell. Sounds like he is saying they were only friends to avoid a confrontation. Also after 3 years it is hard to believe no feelings were involved, but men don't get as emotionally attached as women do, so I guess it is possible.

24 years is worth giving him another chance
But he has to admit it first !
If he had feeling for her he wouldn't have come home to you
But to be sure ask him this very simple question?
"DO YOU WANT TO SPEND THE REST OF YOUR LIFE WITH ME"
I hope everything works out for you.

Christa i could see it happen once or twice,but 3 years,i know about 24 years ,you feel like not starting over again,

And you feel like maybe it has stoped,as for text message and other things,its to easy to get a email,or phone,it will take a long time to trust,true love last but when rules are now broken,you won t be able to trust again.Move on let him feal his own pain!!

Christa,

I am so sorry you are going through everything you are.. But to get to your question, the "confession" alone shows that he is sorry and regrets his actions. BUT! All that matters, is how YOU feel!

If you choose to stay and try to work things out, for the years you have spent together/the children  you have, etc... For your own sake, I would suggest either hiring a P.I., or keep a close track of credit card/bank statements and especially phone bills... Any unknown numbers that come up, ask him casually "Hey Babe, Do you know who's number is (555...whatever....)?" After 24 years of marriage, you should be able to read his reaction..

AND if you are leaning towards divorce, there is nothing wrong with that. He hurt and betrayed you. But the main thing to remember is that men are just horny. Their purpose in life is to procreate, it's their biological need to "spread their seed", but it doesn't mean he ever loved her. With all of today's birth control technology you would think that they would calm the hell down! But, us women always have the deeper question "Does he Love HER!?" 

No sweetie, he just had to show his ugly dominant male face! Men always listen to their head and not their hearts...

 So it's your choice. Spend a few days away from home doing something you love, and really think about whether you're willing to stay... Is he really worth all the questioning you're going to go through, and the seducing you're going to do to win his place at home?

You decide, and whatever decision you make, will be the right one! Good luck girl, and we are all behind you! 

you are correct we are just horny!!!