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Infidelity

What are the chances of a marriage that started out as an affair working out? If anyone here is in that situation what are the issues you face once you end up together?

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It is often assumed that people who were once cheater, will cheat again. I don't know what the chances are for you, but I do think this should not be the major cause for concern. I suggest you ask yourself, are you willing to trust your partner and vice versa?

If you can overcome the trust issues, you have the same chances as any other couple. 


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"If you can overcome the trust issues, you have the same chances as any other couple. "

How do you trust if someone left his/her spouse for you?


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listen infidelity, if u trust him r can over come the trust in the relationship, it can work. I am currently in a similar situation, there a reason both of u cheated so as long as both of u hold up the end of ya bargain, then go 4 it. Remember u only live once and love is a beautiful thing to have so run with it till the well run dry and never regret what was what"s not and what is, live with each moment with happyness and peace. make each other ur peace. If it dosent work it already done, u didnt work so hard to get each other to ask some 1 else what u should do u already in too deep, so live 4 u and do what makes u happy


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I personally don't think you will end up together. Remember if they do it with you, they will do it to you. You both probably need your moral compasses checked. I honestly don't belive that anything good can come of a situation that probably hurt many people and began with dishonesty, disloyalty, and cheating.


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please understand this is not about me I am very single


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