listen infidelity, if u trust him r can over come the trust in the relationship, it can work. I am currently in a similar situation, there a reason both of u cheated so as long as both of u hold up the end of ya bargain, then go 4 it. Remember u only live once and love is a beautiful thing to have so run with it till the well run dry and never regret what was what"s not and what is, live with each moment with happyness and peace. make each other ur peace. If it dosent work it already done, u didnt work so hard to get each other to ask some 1 else what u should do u already in too deep, so live 4 u and do what makes u happy