life is too short for drama and petty things, so kiss slowly, laugh insanely, love truly, and forgive quickly.

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Love is the battery of life....

Hi,
It is clear that you want him very much (I believe you are in deep love).... so you are not going to love my answer: That guy loves his ex.... but she doesn't love him.... she will drive him dilly.... he will never stop trying to get her back.... even if you do the mistake and be with him he'll all the time think of her and try getting her.... he'll emotionally be with her.... that doesn't leave any chances to your relations....  The best you can do is tell him the truth:  I would like being with you but that can happen only after that other girl is totally out of your life and you are emotionally free and ready to fall in love with me......  I can guess that few weeks after you do it he'll start running after you !. 
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Looking at love is not an easy process, as one must look at all of the relationships in their lives, both past and present, in order to understand current conceptions, patterns and expectations.

Hello,

I agree with OronD. If you want him that bad, it is time that you are the one that is hard to get. Men are very different than women. They do like a challenge. Women think being sweet and kind will get a man, not true for most. If his feelings are true for you, he will be back but if they are really wanting this other woman, I say move on {I know that is easier said than done} but....He will NEVER be emotionally free for you. So ask yourself this: Do I deserve better than this? Do I deserve 100% from my partner?

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life is too short for drama and petty things, so kiss slowly, laugh insanely, love truly, and forgive quickly.

well now just like the other day the girl sent him an e-mail saying that he is a 2 faced liar and immature and a coward and that she can't trust him cause he would talk about her to his friends and didn't do direct confrontation and was trying to deliberately hurt her emotionally or whatever......and she brought me and this other girl he liked before me into the e-mail sayin he did the same thing to us, which he didn't to me of course....and that they haven't been able to be friends because of it I guess and she told him that it wasn't him droppin her it is her droppin him and to have a wonderful fuckin life and not to come to her work when she is there. so I am guessing the relationship whatever it was is over now cause after that happened he had blocked her from his phone and his e-mail, and IM and he also said he blocked his friends as well and this other girls he know cause they had something to do with it I guess and was fed up with it...............but he did say that he was glad that he still had me as a friend to talk to all that, since we do talk everyday and hang out once in a while and r still close.


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Looking at love is not an easy process, as one must look at all of the relationships in their lives, both past and present, in order to understand current conceptions, patterns and expectations.

Ok, are you sleeping with him? This would be your BIGGEST mistake.


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life is too short for drama and petty things, so kiss slowly, laugh insanely, love truly, and forgive quickly.

yeah I have been told that. we did sleep together when we were going out.... it probably was a mistake to continue to sleep with him after the break up, but the other girl has no idea we did or that him and me still talk, and hang out. now it is a little harder to break myself away from him, cause I still would like to talk to him and hang out and be friends but knowing what he is going through won't help the situation I guess, but now he only has me and one other friend to talk to and go to when he needs someone to talk to. he says he is glad that I am still his friend and is able to come to me to talk about anything that is on his mind. so now I am really not sure what to do about it since the other girl is out of the picture cause of the e-mail she sent sayin she wants nothing to do with him.


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