Hypnotics, manipulation & manipulators

I've (about twenty years ago) suffered through two relationships that I didn't want. The first one was a girl of appropriate age for med. She was considered a retard, but somehow managed to eploit everybody feeling sorry for her. The other one was an older man who had worked with manipulating people into bying things. For me, both these periods are very filthy and awful.

Do you believe that people, even those who are retarded, might hypnotize people into not realizing that they are evil?

I feel that it is adequate to say that probably exploitation in porn, too, is very often more or less dependant on such thing. Of course, there is also naiveness and poverty, which I did not mention before. As for me, though, I was a naive and poor stud, at that time!

I mean that what I was through is similar in at least two respects. The first one is that I felt exploited. The secon one is that each of my two exploiters had a gratification similar to what I can feel whatching some of that porn.