Sorry this might me long,
My Husband has an internet porn problem grrrr, he told me sometime ago he was not doing it anymore. I believed him or i wanted to believe him. We have 2 pc in our home his & mine, But we also share these pc, as he has stuff on his that i sometimes (rarley) use. Long story short i found porn on it in a folder labeled "new folder" I knew before i opened it. I just died inside. it took me sometime before i confronted him that day, I told him he has wasted 20 yr's of my life, i told him i hated him for doing this to US & that he was a selfish basturd! I then asked him who he pretended i was the night before when we made love? So needless to say we did'nt talk the rest of that day, that evening I got all dolled up & left for the evening ( I have never done this before ever). I got home at abt 2:30 or so & slept in the spare room we have. Next day i wrote down all my thought's & everything i felt, he later came out of the room & tried to say sorry , not this time buddy (note already wasted to much of my time). I said to him that if he really wanted to know how i felt , then he could read what i had wrote, he now understand's what his porn habit has done to me and to our marriage . He said he needed help in stopping & said he did'nt think he could do it my himself, and that he wanted to save our marriage, i got him someone (therpist) he started last week. I told him i would only give him 1 yr & i was done, i've had more than enough of this. He has lied to me so many time's over this in the past. I know i will be checking up on him from time to time, i'm thinking of putting a monitor on the pc, I'm starting to wonder if i'll ever be able to trust him ever again ?
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