What should I do about my husband never initiates sex, I have expressed how this is painful to me and how I need to feel wanted. I have gotton so depressed over this because last year I told him how inportant it is to me for the man to initiate sex because it makes me feel confident and he still has not put forth the effort. ( except one time when he was drunk and tired of fighting with me) Could it me because he is an alcaholic?