Husband with no sex drive

I think that you really need to try therapy again.  It is really not acceptable for your husband to deprive you of sex.  As I just explained to another person in Yedda, sex isn't just about feeling good.  It's about showing your love in a way that is magical.  You are being deprived of one of the most special parts of being with someone.  If he won't change, no matter what, then I think that you need to leave, and move on with your life.  I know it hurts, but no woman should have to go 10 plus years with no sex.  That's just mean  and wrong.

Sounds like your husband has a problem like he might not be able to get it up. men have big egos and they rather just ignore a problem like that cause mentally they my feel like they are not a man. You are a very good women to stick by him cause a lot of women would be cheating on him or leave him. I think that maybe you should ask him to go to some conseling by himself first. he might be too embaressed to let you know all the reseaons and may be able to open up to someone or he just might need some viagra. have you tried to watch sex video's with him to see if he can get aroused?