Desperation is rarely appealing.
Meanwhile, "Jeff" is a rather common name, is it not? If this "Jeff" is a member of Yedda, and if he wants to accept your numerous suggestive offers; he'll know how to find you.
If you don't hear from him then you can probably make the following assumptions:
1) He is not a member of Yedda OR he has zero interest in you, for some strange reason. (Could it be because you're throwing yourself at him?)
2) See reason number 1, above.