Holding off sexually

Hi,
I'll give you an indirect answer:  Mahatma Gandhi used to give very long speechs (lasting several hours).  He never used notes.  When he was asked: "How can you give such long speechs without preparing notes ?" he answered: "I speak straight from my heart, I say exactly what I feel and think !".  Great story with great moral.  Show who you are, never pretend.... Sooner or later he'll find out who you really are.... and besides: If he won't accept you the way you are better let him go and find someone who likes you as you are (with all the + and all the -).  So, don't hesitate and be yourself..... in fact he will probably believe that he caused you to change (and get the credit for it).... and 9 out of 10 guys will only be happy to see that change.   Go for it and good luck.
Best regards,

Don't play games. Just do what you feel is right. If you want to be open sexually go for it. If this guy really likes you he'll get to know you and there will be no need for pretending.

just let your wild side out slowly, little surprises in your behavior will make things more exciting and enjoyable for the both of you

The number one reason for the failure of relationships is the dishonesty of the courtship period. When I say dishonesty, I don't just mean lies, but unspoken truths. Often we are so excited and filled with so much emotion that we actually believe that we can or not do something just to be with the other person. In the future this leads to living a double life, lying, cheating and realising that your partner is either not right for you or you are not right for them.

So, don't be worried, be relieved and let loose the real sex on your unsuspecting lover. Don't worry too much about the outcome. Be yourself always.

Plus he will probably love it. 

Hey Lin...all I can say sweetheart is GO FOR IT!!!  You'll never know if that's what he's waiting for, you don't want him thinking...is this all there is??? A healthy sexual relationship is VITAL and I can't stress that enough. You need to be able to be yourself and let your sexuality dominate the bedroom, if he can't handle it and join you in it or help you reach your sexual gratification then he's not a keeper and you should call me cause I will let you rock my world IF you let me rock yours...xoxo

You don't have to tell him everything, as I am sure he hasn't told you about all of his conquest, and believe you me, he has probably had quite a few himself. If he is asking you about your past, he could be insecure about himself, if he is not asking, then really, why should it be brought up at all, you are in a new relationship and your(and his) former relationships should not be discussed.

Just be yourself and let go. If he likes what he sees, great, if not, you need to know now.

I believe it depends on what you mean by "open". Disclosing all your past encounters? No. It serves no purpose. The fact that you waited indicates to me that this guy is special to you, not just a sexual conquest.. be honest about your thoughts and feelings but keep the confessions to yourself.