Hobbies of couples

What do you think of couples having the same hobbies and interests, which means there's not time left for each one to spend some time on her\his own or with good friends?


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I can give you a list of famous chess players that married other well known chess  players: maybe the comparaison with other sports will be done by others

And there are in chess more couples than in any other sport in India. Dibyendu Barua and Saheli Dhar, Anupama Abhayankar and Raghunandan Gokhale, T. S. Ravi and Saimeera, Vasanti Khadilkar and C. S. Unni, Sudhakar N. Babu and Krishna Jhagirdhar...

http://www.hinduonnet.com/tss/tss2704/stories/20040124004106800.htm

GM - grandmaster  IM international master   W (woman)

GM Ivanchuk - IM Galliamova (x)
GM Shirov - IM Cmilyte
GM Lautier - IM Skripchenko (x)
GM Grischuk - IM Zhukova (GM when rating = 2500)
GM Gulko - WGM Anna Akhsharumova Gulko
GM Shaobin Wu - GM Jun Xie
GM Kosashvili - IM Sofia Polgar
GM Al-Modiahki - GM Zhu Chen
GM Sergei Movsesian - WGM Petra Krupkova-Movsesianova
GM Atalik - WGM Polovnikova
GM Bellon - GM Pia Cramling
GM Bobby Fischer - Zita Rajcsanyi
GM Bobby Fischer - WIM Watai
GM Yermolinsky - WGM Baginskaite
GM Keith Arkell - IM Susan Arkell
GM Lalic - IM Susan Lalic
GM Ribli - WIM Maria Grosch
GM Seirawan - WFM Yvette Nagel Seirawan
GM Rogers - WFM Cathy Rogers
IM Charbonneau - IM Krush
GM R.B.Ramesh - WGM Aarti Ramaswami
GM Peng Xiaomin -WGM Qin Kanying
GM Zhang Zhong - WGM Li Ruofan
IM Orlov - WGM Elena Donaldson
GM D. Barua - WIM Saheli Dhar Barua
GM Nunn - WFM Petra-Fink Nunn
GM Stripunsky - WFM Julia Shiber
GM Sagalchik - WIM Olga Sagalchik
GM Alex Ivanov - WIM Epstein
GM Sher - WGM Grinfeld
GM Christiansen - wc Natasha Christiansen
IM Foisor - IM Foisor
IM Sriram Jha - IM Vijayalaxmi S.
IM William Hartston - WGM Jana Hartston
GM Bellin - WGM Jana Bellin
GM Miles - WGM Jana Miles
GM Peter Biyiasas - WIM Ruth Haring
IM Root - WIM Alexey Root
IM Wu Xibin - WIM Lou Hongyu
IM LiWenling - WIM Gao Zhiqian
FM Tegshuren Enkhbat - WIM Tsagaan Battsetseg
GM Kosteniuk - Diego Garces

http://susanpolgar.blogspot.com/2006/01/best-chess-couples.html


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My parents and some of there friends go "folk dancing" together , I have never asked them but it seems they have enough time for themselves. I think a worse case his couples who work together , then they really see each other too much. Me and my girlfriend do not share a hobby and I actually find it kind of sad , I wish there would be more stuff we could do together.

I think you can always make time for yourself and your partner , you just have to be creative.


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Shared hobbies and interests are good - so are separate ones. Spending ALL off of your time together is smothering, though, and is one of the best ways to chase the spark right out of things for most couples. It's hard to find much to talk about when you're together constantly! (And, really, how interesting is it to just talk about work stuff?)

Even if you don't have any hobbies/interests you don't share, you don't always have to participate in the same events.

For instance, my partner and I both enjoy roleplaying games (RPGs). We don't have to play in all the same games. He runs games for groups in which I don't play, and I'm free to play in games run by other people or to run games myself.

Couples involved in the SCA often join different guilds, which have different  practice/meeting schedules. Musicians can play together as well as in different ensembles and in solo gigs.

Still, I think it's healthy for people to try to develop some hobbies/interests that are separate. I do needlework. Sam plays video games. He's never going to pick up a needle, and I can't understand what anyone gets out of those games. We support each other's separate habits and find our time apart well-spent - even when we're in the same room doing separate things, it's not the same as doing the same thing together. We have new things to talk to each other about when we go off and pursue our interests separately.

If you have children, especially older ones, it's nice if one of you shares a passion with one of them that can be the basis for special time together. Or, each of you may want to use pursuit of a hobby to get some precious child-free time. Just make sure things work out fairly if that's the case, so you both get time to do that. Rock-hounding can be great fun for kids, though, and teens can be very helpful with researching your family tree. Even young children can enjoy gardening.

When you come back together after spending time apart, you'll feel refreshed and have more energy for each other.


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I love to spend as much time with my fiance as I can and its great that we have similar interests.  It gets hard to want the time away from each other.  However, spending some time with friends can let you have some reflection.  And, we have the most different types of friends since we have a big age gap, so we don't really relate with them. 


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Its great that you both have same interest . You guys can do all your activities together , almost spend time together, live together. Whatelse you want more than this in your life ..............Frown


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