High sex drive with low sex drive.

You don't need to find a second woman.  You'll end up with a lot of problems possibly divorce.

    You need to have an honest open discussion about these issues.  She needs to see her doctor and be checked for any medical problems she may have that may be causing less sex drive.  Get her to see her Gynecologist to check her hormonal levels.  You need to consult a sex therapist or a sexologist.  Most important of all is to seek marriage counseling.

Hi, I understand that sexual urge is normally more in men, but finding another partner is not the solution. You should talk about this to your wife and make her understand abt the intensity of your physical desire and how she is making you suffer due to it.

Also let her know that this it is an uncontrollable feeling for men and yet it is not in you to do anything immoral. This will probably put her in your shoes and will start working on it.

NO you do not start sleeping with someone else .  Make sure your wife does not have any health issues , would have been nice if you had thought of her having a possible health issue before asking if you should start screwing around on her .  I am always amazed that the first thing Men think is should I go outside the marriage and not I wonder what is going on with my Wife she is ok .  If she is healthy then use some of your excess energy towards her .  Sex to women starts in her head , so start there , talk to her , romance her , wine and dine her , make yourself just as irresistible as you were when she married you for LIFE .  Get some counseling if you cannot get out of her what is going on .  If you decide to do none of this and do go outside the marriage , be prepared for the heartache , the betrayal and a possible divorce .  If you were my husband and went outside the marriage , I would divorce you .

No I truly believe that being a wife my self that finding another partner would be more devasting. If you truly love your wife this would not even be a thought in your mind. I do believe that the possiblity could be health issues but it could also self confindence issues as well consider talking with her about just talking to  someone together. My husband and I went thru the same thing a few years ago ther are things that can be done about low sex drive.  Also getting counseling not just for your sex issues could open a whole new door in both of your lives and you could get to re know each other all over again.

I know you proberly feel this is the biggest  problem in your life right now,but if you end up having sex with someone else,I think your problems will just have begun.I was your wife that woman who could not show affection or love her husband.Its a terriable place to be so isolated so lonley and so sad.my advice is CHANGE THE WAY YOU THINK .Why did you marry her? can you remember why? she is still the same person inside .You must have got separted along the way what happened Go right back to base and start again Sex will not fix this. Change will