There are lots of ways that the two of you can sexually pleasure one another in the bedroom that won't put too much performace stress upon your B/F. So it would be worth your while to view some Porn together and spice up yur sexuality. No man can keep up with a woman who has a high sex drive, and you need to keep in mind that performance, performance, performance on his part may just leave him like a vibrator with low batt., and it becomes useless and so will he be sexually speaking.