I am 61 wiegh 225 lbs, I have spent my life raising kids and grandkids, and working full time and being married 22 years to a man that cheated all of it. I have helped my son raise his kids, because of his loss of both kidneys and illness, he is now married again, his wife gave him a kidney and he is doing better although I still have his two older children with me. I want to do something for me, I went to the dr, took a tredmill test, am totally out of shape, I have a 5 in bar in my neck from work related injury, I barely get by, live in a mobile home where my 6'4" grandson sleeps on the couch. thats all fine but I want to lose weight and live, and get in shape, please tell me how!! I have tried everything, I am currently on weight watchers and I am watching it go up haha, I am at wits end. I have had a hard life, but thats ok too, just want to lose weight and meet someone, a man won't look at a heavy woman especially one with average income. You have it all together, help me get it together too.