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I have been going with an older gal for a few years now. She likes to spend money. Only she will not allow me to touch her, no hand holding, no kissing, no nothing.I told her I love her very much and she said she loves me as a friend, and is not in love with me. A  play on words I would say. I am older and my health is not the best, but I do like her even though she is untouchable. Dump her???

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Absolutly! I am afraid that you are being used for your money and generosity. Move on before it is to late and she drains your bank account.

 

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You should know by now that love is giving not taking; therefore your relationship is totally one-sided. You, the one who loves and she the one who doesn't takes.


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I have to agree with TipTopManager. It looks like she's using you for your money. Don't be a sucker. Get rid of her so you can find someone better who will appreciate all you can do for her.


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Yes, she is using you. She is trying to tell you she is not interested in you, as in a relationship. Yes, she wants to be "friends" so you will keep allowing her to spend money. She sounds like a very selfish person. You deserve someone who loves you sincerely. Don't waste your time "hoping" that she will eventually fall in love with you.


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Hi there,

     The woman is using you.  I think you know that yourself.  You just need to confirm this.  Don't waste your time and money with her.  There are other deserving ladies out there who will love you and not use you for money, for a sugar daddy in lay man's term.

Good luck in your search!


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Little do you know but you have answered the question yourself.....Of course you need to leave her. Tomorrow is not promised to none of us and if your health is not all that great spend the time you do have with someone that want more from you than money! Someone you will enjoy you for you weather you had 5 dollars or 5 million!!


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