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Help me please

Sometimes I feel like my husband has 2 different personalities. When he is in his good mood, he will talk to me all the time, cuddle with me, touch me everytime he passes next to me, make love to me everytime he can, he will smile, make jokes, etc. And when it switches to the other mood... well, it's the complete opposite. I never know when it comes. He only wants to be alone, do his stuff in peace, he doesn't want to talk and when he does talk, it's always rude, he doesn't touch me (nothing at all). When he is like that, I just don't know what to do. He wants me to accept him the way he is. He says he doesn't ask anything of me. Please, is there anybody in the same situation? I'm helpless here, and really sad.


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Your direction,not your intentions,determines your destina

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Seems like you have tried to speak to him a little bit about this swing in his moods, what does he say causes them? If he doesn't know, he may need to tak to a doctor and find out if there is something phyically going on or if he might suggest going to a Phychologist or someone else he would recommend.It might be pressure at certain times, or it could be a hormonal imbalance. Men have their hormone things that go wrong just like women, although I bet he want admit it to you.Ego thing. If he is not willing to find out what's going on then you are left with a couple of choices, learn to live with the situation, or get rid of the problem. Maybe someone in his family has noticed a swing in his moods and they can find out something that he want tell you.He might have this fear of growing old and at times he wants to prove he is still the young man he use to be, but it some dawns on him again that he is still the same age and he gets depressed again.Either way he needs to own up to his fears of aging.Tell him it's better than the other alternative, and that you love this alternative better. Good luck.

Posted 2009-11-11T23:06:27Z
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id dump him it seems hes a moody person and if it were me i wouldnt stay with him

Posted 2009-11-12T01:46:34Z
 

Thank you A Brown for your answer. Like you said, I did talk to him about the problem, but in his mind, he has no problem cause he says he has always been like that. And that he just need his time alone from time to time. What I'm afraid of is up until 4 months ago, we were apart for a year. He was coming home for the week-ends. That's it. And now, well we moved really far, and we are always together. I have no family around, a couple of friends but we are all in the same situation, living on a military base... So when he is feeling like that, I can't go to my mom's for the week-end. I can't leave him in his time alone. I have nowhere to go.  Anyways,for my part, my only choice is to try to live with it. So I'll go ahead and do that.  Thank you again for your answer. Cheers   

 

Posted 2009-11-12T12:38:57Z

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