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Hi,

How do you feel like a woman using language like that? There are many young people using this site. If you want to use this site clean up the language.

i know i have a smart arse remark somewhere for this, but i think i will refrain

You are the only one that knows your body best and can guide your partner to help you reach an orgasm. If it's difficult and not happening, it might be because your mind is not free and you are just not concentrating on the moment. If you are openly guiding your partner and you are enjoying it, but still not able to reach an orgasm, then, as Oron mentioned before, you'd better see a doctor. A woman should always feel like a woman. For as frustrating it can be not to be satisfied, a lady should never degrade having sex willingly.

Only about 30% of women achieve orgasm in penetration.

I think that feeling like a woman has much more to it then orgasms, it's a big part of your personality - do you feel like a woman when you do the grocery shopping? when you read an amazing book? when you go to work? being a woman is something you are, and feel it all the time, orgasm or not...

Can you reach orgasm in other way but penetration? if you can then it'll be very nice if your lover will spend the time and effort making sure that you'll have one while having sex with him whether if it's through oral sex or masturbating your clit or whatever works for you.

I think you should have an honest talk about sex with your partner to make sure you are both having fun in bed. To me taking the responsibility  over your own happiness in bed and out of it is a big part of being a woman.

I agree, but at the same time these "young people" probably shouldn't be looking at this page anyway. What difference does that make?

First of all love you body. Respect it. Don.t be a slut with your language

llet yourself go and enjoy the throbbing of your man inside you become a part of it. and explode

Also you have to be honest with your mate. Don't keep secrets about how you feel.