A:WOW!! If u husband is verbaly abusing you i think that u should tlk to him about y he is unhappy or upset ect....with ur realtionship and it is completely normal to gain weight after marriage and have a kid. Ur not fat. He is just probably having a bad day @ work or watevr but u should still be nice to him. I really dont have much to say bout it so ia m sorry that my advise is a little bad.