teresa im very sorry about your situation  im a grandma to  and i cant emagine how i would feel if my son did that to me  the thing is you were both wrong first you should of talked to your daughter about babysitting and how you wanted the arrangment to go just assuming she was going to pay you in some respect was just what it was assuming. and your daughter is taking advantage of you by assuming your the grandma you shouldnt get payed for babysitting all the time.your daughter is being very irrisponsable and imature . my gut is telling me that you should send her a loving letter explaining how much you miss your grandchild and you are sorry for the fight dont go into blame because she isnt mature enough to grasp the fact that she was wrong  ask her if you could please have the baby once aweek maybe a weekend day even if they have nowhere to go make it seem like your doing a favor for them no payment required . really terasa you have raised your children and grandparents are for spoiling the child and then giving them back. enjoy your time with your grandbaby and then enjoy your freedom dont let this change the goodness in you one day you will get an applogy from your daughter it might take awhile but when she runs out of using people shell have to pay someone life isnt free.... good luck