I have a grandson,my first. I have told my son & daughter in law-Friday_ that is my day to spoil him,but then he goes home. there having some finanual problems which i volunteered to babysit if she wanted to get a job. Corbin is only 18 mos. and never has stayed with a stranger and i don,t want him to until he can at least tell you if things aren,t right. I offered to do this for free, until they get back on there feet. If they were going out to eat,partying,or just spending money foolishly i would expect pay.I don,t want them out drinking anyway. We all know that is T-R-O-U-B-L-E. I have been fighting cervical cancer and i don,t know what my future holds. If worst comes to worst for me i want him to know granny loves him. There has been times when i have had my heart walked on, it has gotten a lot better through communication. Talk to your daughter, without blame, just express your feelings.