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i really really love my boyfriend but i keep thinking he's

going to cheat on me how can i stop worrying about it?????

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Hi,
Why are you worried ? Did he cheat you B4 ? If the answer is no give him a chance.  Not all boys cheat there girlfriends.  If the answer is yes, you have to talk to him.  Tell him it hurted you deply and it puts a big shadow on your relations.  Tell him that you give him another change 2C if he can be faithfull, and that you'll break the relation if he does it again. 
Trust and honesty are the base of any relation.
I wish you the best of luck,

 


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No he's never cheated on me b4 (well not as far as i knw anyway) but he has done it in the past to is EX Wife the day after he was married and he keeps telling me that me and his EX Wife are very similar but i think the reason im worrying is coz all of my EX Boyfriend's have cheated on me and im just waiting for him to do it to me


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Tnx for your open and honest reply.  You probably meet the wrong people.  I bat that among my friends there are very few who cheat there partners.  In fact I can't point even on of my friends who cheated his/her partner.  I believe it's hard to live with someone that you know that cheats you or sure will cheat you soon.  It's like driving a car loosing your breaks on a sharp slope....... You are sure the accident will occur but you don't know when.... and what the consequences will be..... Terrible .....
My best advise is: Try hard to meet people different from what you are used to.  It's not easy, but if you will find the right people the whole world will look better 2U. 
I wish you the best of luck.

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Ive been with my boyfriend for 4yrs now and we have a daughter together (in my heart he's the right person for me) i really do love him to bits am i just worring about nothing i keep tellin him i think he's sleeping with his EX Wife (when we argue) and he keeps tellin me he hasnt done nething and promising he hasnt done anything i really do wish i could belive him


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Has your boy friend ever cheated on U in the past?? or with his last girlfriend??  Or did your last boyfriend cheat on U??  Or are U the one who has cheated??  See there are many diffrent ways we have reasons to worry and with out knowing any of this it is hard to answer your qeustion... So some where there is a reason for U to be worrying...So ask your self those questions and U might find the answer...Good Luck...Peace out...


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If your boyfriend has been faithful until now and you have no reason to believe that he might cheat on you, then the problem is with you.  Is it that you would like to be with other guys?  Is it that you think that you are not good enough for him?  One thing you should know is that people often act the way others expect them to act.  If you are jealous and show him that you don't trust him, he very well may figure he has nothing to lose by becoming untrustworthy.  If you really care about him, then you need to be honest and faithful and to trust that he will do the same.


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